語(yǔ)言是社交禮儀的直接工具，想讓你的語(yǔ)言討大家喜歡嗎？當(dāng)然可以，如果你掌握了交談的技巧，遵守交談的法則，你一定會(huì)成為社交高手。
Find what to say in your favorite topics.
知道如何談?wù)撃阕钕矚g的話(huà)題
We all have things we are passionate about: activities, hobbies, projects, goals, ideas or jobs. Take some time to make a short but relevant list with the things you are most passionate about, and would make easy conversational topics for you.
我們都有自己熱愛(ài)的東西：某些活動(dòng)、愛(ài)好、項(xiàng)目、目標(biāo)、思想或者工作?；c(diǎn)時(shí)間列一個(gè)簡(jiǎn)短的清單，讓它們成為對(duì)話(huà)時(shí)的好話(huà)題。
Ask open ended questions.
開(kāi)放式提問(wèn)
One way to keep a conversation going is to get the other person talking. And the best way to do this is by addressing her open ended questions. These are questions which require more than simple 'yes' or 'no' answers, and offer the possibility of much richer answers.
讓對(duì)話(huà)繼續(xù)下去的方法之一是讓別人說(shuō)。而讓別人說(shuō)的最好方法就是開(kāi)放式提問(wèn)。開(kāi)放式問(wèn)題不能只用肯定或否定來(lái)回答，開(kāi)放式問(wèn)題的答案豐富多彩。
Blurt.
脫口而出
Often, we find it hard to keep a conversation going not because we can't think of anything to say, but because we fear the other person won't enjoy that particular subject, fact or opinion we have in mind. However, most of time, this fear is not anchored in reality. Give it a try, and you'll discover that people are not that harsh and they can enjoy a lot of things in a conversation.
常常我們覺(jué)得對(duì)話(huà)難以進(jìn)行下去，并不是因?yàn)槲覀儾恢勒f(shuō)什么，而是因?yàn)槲覀儞?dān)心對(duì)方對(duì)我們想說(shuō)的話(huà)題沒(méi)興趣。但是，大多數(shù)時(shí)候這個(gè)擔(dān)心是多余的。試著開(kāi)口吧，然后你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)大家并沒(méi)有那么挑剔，很多話(huà)題都是受歡迎的。
Let the other person end the silence.
讓對(duì)方打破沉默
Most people are uncomfortable with silences in a conversation. When one occurs, they immediately try to fill it by finding something to say. You can use this to keep a conversation going. When for example, you've just met a person at a party, you're talking and the conversation is stalling, do not leave that person and go find the peanuts or something like that. Instead, hang in there and let the silence work for you. Most of the time, the other person will eventually pick up the conversation and end the silence.
大多數(shù)人不喜歡對(duì)話(huà)中的沉默。一旦沉默發(fā)生了，它們會(huì)很快說(shuō)點(diǎn)什么。你可以利用這一點(diǎn)讓對(duì)話(huà)繼續(xù)下去。比如，你在派對(duì)上遇到一個(gè)人，你們的對(duì)話(huà)中止了。這時(shí)候不要去拿食物，而把對(duì)方晾在那里。相反，你應(yīng)該呆在原地。大部分時(shí)候，對(duì)方會(huì)打破沉默，接上話(huà)茬。
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（來(lái)源：滬江英語(yǔ) 編輯：Rosy）
